Rachel Sommer, Ph.D. notes that the most enjoyable sex positions are those that feel natural, are pleasurable for both partners, and stimulate the clitoris. Furthermore, these arrangements give each partner more control over their experience.
Testing out different positions is an invaluable way of getting to know your body, its sensitivities and stimulation capacities better – as well as helping break up repetitive or unfulfilling sex experiences.
1. Face to Face
One of the most effective ways to build trust and transparency in your relationship is through face-to-face communication. These meetings allow individuals to understand each other’s body language and nonverbal cues which can aid effective dialogue.
Videoconferencing and audio conferences offer another alternative for conducting meetings; they are especially beneficial in recruiting experts who cannot attend physically, or ensuring everyone understands what was discussed at an event.
Experts argue that face-to-face sessions can also be very beneficial in strengthening relationships as it allows direct communication with your partner and provides you with insight into their motivations and intentions.
Spooning is a popular sex position that provides closeness and full-body contact that many couples find extremely satisfying. According to Megwyn White, director of education at Satisfyer, this position „creates a deep yet exciting connection”. Megwyn also points out its effectiveness for penis-and-vagina sex by giving the vagina owner complete access to their partner’s clitoris and vulva.
Why it feels good: This position provides ample control to the penetrator, making it especially helpful for individuals with anxiety around sex who wish to ensure they are doing their best performance. Furthermore, men looking for maximum control of speed and depth penetration often opt for this position.
Who it suits: This position is perfect for partners of all sexual orientations and gender identities as it makes it easy to fall into sync with your partner quickly. Furthermore, it makes an ideal G-spot stimulation position as you can reposition yourself easily until finding an optimal position to stimulate their genitals.
2. Modified Doggy Style
Doggy style has long been one of the go-to sex positions, which is understandable given how powerfully seductive it can be. However, don’t think doggy is your only option as there are some truly incredible variations available that may offer an added dimension to your sex session.
Doggy is an extremely popular position among both men and women because it is powerful yet easily masterable. Additionally, Doggy provides an ideal starting point if you are new to sexual encounters, allowing you to gradually add various toys as your skill improves.
This sex position places the receiver on their hands and knees as their partner penetrates from behind, offering ample visual stimulation as well as physical clitoral stimulation from front. This provides ample visual stimulation while leaving ample room for manual stimulation from rear partner.
If you’re feeling bored of classic doggy style sex, the turtle position could be the answer to revitalize your sex routine. While this position requires slightly more flexibility than other doggy positions, it will quickly have your man excited again while still reaping all the rewards of classic doggy sex!
To perform this sex position, first lie facedown on either a bed or floor and allow your partner to support your upper body using their hands or elbows.
Your partner can lower you into the flatiron position or use pillows as props while penetrating, or they could put their hands on your legs and pull you close during each thrust; either position offers great opportunities to introduce BDSM elements into sex sessions – just make sure that everyone involved understands its boundaries beforehand!
3. Butterfly
The ideal sex positions are those which excite both you and your partner about making love. They should be fun yet sensual at the same time, allowing multiple squirts and orgasms without much effort, providing an unforgettable experience that’s bound to remain with both of you forever.
One of the most frequent sex positions is known as the missionary position, in which a woman lies back while her partner enters her from above and uses her arms as support. It allows for deep penetration while giving plenty of clitoral stimulation – not to mention being very intimate as she can see her partner’s face!
Deep penetration may also increase your chance of conception as it allows sperm to travel further into the vagina, an essential step to getting pregnant.
Doggy position for women can be an extremely comfortable sex experience, where she lies flat on her stomach with slightly raised bum, while their partner penetrates from above and penetrates at an angle to stimulate the G-spot and create quick orgasms quickly and easily.
She can lean down to reach her clitoris, making her more relaxed and secure in this position. Leaning down will also help her reach her G-spot and experience a truly satisfying orgasm; furthermore, small penis sizes may benefit from leaning down since stimulating its bottom increases chances of experiencing multiple female orgasms.
The butterfly sex position offers something more unusual and can make for an exciting change of pace in bed. More erotic than romantic, this position can make sexual experiences more pleasurable – give it a go and let us know your thoughts in the comments!
4. 69
Those familiar with Porn HD may have seen its most enticing sluts and men with massive cocks opting for the „69 position.” It is one of the most sought-after sexual positions and may help create more intimacy and orgasmic experiences in your bedroom.
While you enjoy yourself and are enjoying the sensation, remember to keep an eye out for your partner’s comfort level. If they seem nervous or uneasy at any point during the experience, be sure to communicate and suggest alternative approaches before moving forward with anything further.
Courtney Padjen, PhD, advises couples in the 69 sex position to lie on their sides for greater comfort. „Lying this way allows both of you to relax more fully while eliminating awkwardness due to weight on the face,” according to Padjen.
She suggests using sex toys for penetration purposes to ensure both partners get maximum pleasure from their sexual experience.
Another variation of the classic 69 sex position, known as the lazy 69, involves lying back while facing each other’s genitals. This variation of sex can be more relaxing than its classic version.
Pregnancy massage can also be an ideal way to reduce stress and deepen intimacy between partners; just make sure that both are comfortable and don’t have any sexually transmitted infections such as Gonorrhea, Chancroid or Human Papilloma Virus.
Sexual activities should always be pleasurable, not painful or uncomfortable! Take breaks as needed so you can fully focus on experiencing pleasure without experiencing an extended marathon of pain and discomfort. Sexual activities should bring joy, not stress.
5. Side to Side
Side to side has long been one of the most beloved sex positions, though its reputation might sometimes be misconstrued as monotonous or vanilla. When done right however, side-to-side sex can actually be very satisfying — with practice and an attentive partner ready to take risks, you could hit some seriously seductive spots!
For this position, your partner lies face down on a bed with her legs spread wide apart in front of her. When leaning forward to place your legs over hers and lean into it further forward allowing you to slide onto her while she faces away from you.
Why it works: Being in control of the angle of penetration allows you to stimulate her clitoris in ways that are both enjoyable and stimulating for both of you. Furthermore, she may feel safer as her experience becomes even more intimate and sensual!
Make It Sexier: For an exciting and more sensual sex experience, elevate your legs over hers and use them as support while doing a slow circular grind, suggesting Stefani Goerlich of LMCSW-Clinical, LISW fame. This will provide more stimulation of her clitoris and prolong the relationship, according to this sex therapist.
One popular variation of side to side sex is edge of heaven sex position. Although it can be challenging, once you achieve success your body will crave more!