No matter if you’re watching porn as a couple to get in the mood or just because it’s enjoyable, there are ways to make your experience even better.
Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex therapist, believes that watching porn can be an excellent opportunity to practice consent. She suggests couples discuss what they plan on watching before they begin watching it so they don’t have to struggle trying to decide what type of activity they want to do together.
1. Talk About It
When watching porn videos, there are a few things you should take into consideration. Doing so will enhance your experience and ensure that you don’t feel uncomfortable while viewing them.
Discuss Porn With Your Partner
If pornography makes you nervous or uncomfortable, let your significant other know about it. They might be able to make you feel more at ease or turn it into something fun like hooking up for a few minutes before filming begins – this will keep everyone from feeling too uncomfortable and provide great bonding time between the two of you.
Talking about their taste in porn and how it matches up with yours (this will help you get to know each other and have a fun time together) is important so both of you have an accurate understanding of each other’s preferences. Being open about it also allows for some great conversation topics!
Use sex euphemisms rather than derogatory terms for body parts
When discussing porn, it’s essential to use terms like „penis,” „vagina,” and „breasts” so people understand that sexual intercourse is an organic process without feeling degraded.
Talking to teens about porn videos can be seen as a form of child sexual abuse. Doing this will instil in them an attitude that watching porn is not a healthy or appropriate way to spend their time.
Establish Boundaries With Your Phone
Mobile devices can be even more hazardous than desktop computers, as they’re easy to access and offer quick access to pornographic sites. To stay safe online, it is essential that you use software to monitor your online activities and establish boundaries with an accountability partner.
Consider getting a tattoo of the phrase, „I love porn” or another similar symbol on your body to increase your comfort level and self-worth. Not only will this give you strength when facing temptation, but it could also serve as an inspiration.
Make time for as much exercise and nutritious eating as you can, both of which will give you more energy and help prevent getting sick or gaining weight.
2. Do It Together
When watching porn videos with your partner, it’s essential that the experience be positive. That means being open about what interests both of you, discussing sexual fantasies and what the other would enjoy seeing, and making sure both of you feel comfortable viewing the video together.
Additionally, be crystal clear about what you don’t want to see. Being honest with your partner is always preferable than waiting until after a sexual encounter that turns them off.
Monica Marin of the National Center for Lesbian Rights suggests asking your partner questions to gain insight into their interests and desires. With this data, you can focus on finding a video that meets both of your requirements as well as theirs, according to Marin.
Another option is to begin by exploring new types of porn that you haven’t encountered before, such as parodies or „ethical porn” movies that tend to be less degrading and more realistic, according to Marin. You could also check out independently owned porn sites which tend to be queer-inclusive and prioritize high production value, chemistry between performers and intimate interactions, she adds.
Once you’ve identified some sexual content that both of you enjoy, take a step back and try watching it with your partner. This could involve as simple as asking them what they think about the video and listening to their response; or it could be more involved; check in throughout the film to discuss which features turn you on or off.
If the video isn’t engaging you or making you uncomfortable, close the browser window and return to what both of you prefer. Doing this can help avoid any awkwardness between you and your partner as you explore this new topic together, plus it provides an opportunity for healthy discussions about emotions in real time, according to Marin.
3. Have Fun
No matter if you’re shooting video with your smartphone or a real camera, the main goal should be having fun. Don’t stress over how the shots turn out; instead, pay attention to what makes you chuckle or smile as you shoot.
Why not include your partner in on the fun? A photo shoot is an ideal opportunity to strengthen the bonds between both of you.
There is so much to explore and enjoy in the pornographic universe, but making it a team effort and not being afraid to ask for assistance when needed will increase your enjoyment immensely. Plus, working as a team increases the odds that you come up with an excellent idea rather than trying it on your own.
4. Get Turned On
Do you ever watch porn and think to yourself: „I don’t want to do this again?” Unfortunately, many people find the experience of watching pornographic material too intense or they might feel as though they are being controlled by a sexually aggressive individual. No matter the case may be, many are searching for alternatives ways to get excited in other ways.
When watching porn videos, there are a few tricks you can do to make your fantasy become reality and get you feeling hot and bothered. No matter if you’re an experienced sex addict or just starting out, these tips will ensure the most out of your next video shoot!
1. Define Your Sexual Interests.
It can be tricky to decide what kind of vibe you’re going for when so many different people exist. But once you do, personalizing your sex life with creativity and porn is truly rewarding!
2. Create a scenario that excite you.
This could be something as simple as making up an imaginary scenario in which you and your partner get ready for bed together, or it could be something more elaborate like having an intimate date night or camping in the woods. Whatever it is, use it as inspiration when creating your porn like video!
3. Take Your Time.
When filming a porn video, it can be easy to get distracted by worrying about how the footage looks. You might be fiddling with the camera, repositioning yourself or changing settings without paying attention to what needs to be captured in order to capture an arousal moment. Doing this could cause you to miss out on an important element of production: focus! 3. Plan Ahead of Time.
It pays off to take some extra time when shooting videos: planning ahead will lead to better results in less effort overall and prevent missing out on key moments during production stages
4. Explore New Touching Techniques
When first starting to experiment with masturbating, it can be helpful to focus on your own body and let intuition guide your actions. Try touching different areas such as your torso, neck, inner thighs, hairline or any other parts that attract you; pay attention to how it feels – is it warm, sweaty or tender?