Porn videos have become increasingly popular in modern culture, appealing to both single and married people alike. Some couples even watch them together as a means of stimulating sexual desire and perfecting their sex act.
However, some may ponder if watching porn video viewing is healthy for couples. In this article, licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin and assistant professor in Human Development and Family Studies Meghan Maas provide all the information you need to know about watching porn as a couple.
1. They arouse sexual desire
Pornographic videos often arouse sexual desire in viewers. This could include those experiencing a sexual fetishism or paraphilia, as well as those who find nudity and erotica appealing. Arousals can be caused by conversations, reading material, films or images, smells or settings.
Sexual stimulation such as kissing, petting an erogenous zone or direct sexual activity can also induce arousal in both partners.
Some studies have suggested that watching pornography may reduce a person’s sexual arousal, particularly with a partner. This could occur because the visuals in pornographic video material elicit feelings of attraction and desensitize viewers to real-world sexual experiences.
However, new research suggests this may not be the case. A study conducted by van Overveld and Borg discovered that people who have a history of watching pornographic material exhibit higher arousal when engaging in partnered sexual behavior.
Women tend to watch more porn than men, which could make it more likely for them to engage in sexual arousal with their partners. Furthermore, porn tends to be more accessible and attractive to women than men.
One study revealed that viewing pornography may elicit more sexual arousal in women with a history of erectile dysfunction, but isn’t a cause for alarm in those without. Furthermore, those who view pornography with their partners are less likely to have relationship issues than those who don’t.
It is essential to remember that everyone views and consumes porn differently. For some, watching it provides pleasure and education while for others it may be an intense distraction. When someone develops an obsession with using this medium for pleasure or education, their relationship with porn can become unhealthy and destructive. By understanding your personal relationship with porn you can cultivate a healthy and fulfilling lifestyle free from substance abuse issues.
2. They satisfy boredom
Porno videos can be a form of entertainment for many people. While this isn’t necessarily bad, it can leave you feeling isolated and disconnected from those around you – particularly if you’re single and don’t have someone to share your time with.
The good news is that it’s easy to find alternatives. One of the best is trying to spend more quality time with those closest to you by scheduling more date nights or organizing a trip away from home. Additionally, limit your use of social media and other forms of self-indulgence.
To determine what’s worth your effort and money, research all potential activities. Doing this will enable you to decide which ones are worth the effort and which aren’t. Before beginning any new endeavor, identify your preferences and expectations first; having a specific objective in mind makes achieving that goal much simpler. It also prevents you from focusing on unnecessary items or spending money you don’t have on unnecessary things.
3. They are a form of entertainment
The most popular video of the year is Pink Flamingos. It has drawn much criticism as an incitement to violence and sexual assault. Many people have noted that this is a problem in society, particularly among young people. Yet it’s important to remember that porno movies don’t necessarily have to be bad; they can provide entertainment for those who love them and educate people about sex. Furthermore, watching them may cause seratonin and other chemicals in the brain which may arouse sexual desire.
4. They are a form of communication
If you and your significant other watch porn videos but you do not, it can be a form of communication. It helps you comprehend their needs, desires and fears more fully. Watching porn movies also provides educational value about various positions, role play scenarios and sexual stimulation. However, if this type of behavior becomes extreme or unacceptable to either party it could lead to unhealthy sexual relationships and lack of intimacy; hence the importance of being aware of one’s own sexual preferences and limits.